Home from China

So, we are home from China with our daughter, Acadia Xin (or Cadie, as we like to call her). We have been a family for 2 weeks and 2 days.  We had an amazing 2 weeks in China, Christopher, my mom, and myself.  We spent 1 day in Beijing touring the Forbidden City and the Great Wall.  The rest of the time was spent in Guangzhou and it was nice to settle into a routine there.  Gotcha Day was December 14, 2010.  I will remember that day for as long as I live.  Cadie looked so pretty in her pink suit and she walked right over to us with the help of her nanny.  She was so scared. She was trembling and silently crying for a long time.  We held her close for several days. Slowly, this beautiful, spirited girl began to emerge.  Everyday, we learned new things about her- likes (congee, bathtime, squeaky shoes) and dislikes (bedtime-ugh!) and were quite amazed at what a little comic she was.  We enjoyed the company and community of the other adoptive families at the White Swan and miss that now that we are home.  We are grateful to Cadie's orphanage, Maonan SWI, for providing us with a memory book that was started 2 days after her arrival there.  Included are pictures and narratives written by a nanny who seemed to love our daughter very much.  Half the Sky Foundation is actively involved with Cadie's orphanage and it would be my wish that every orphanage in China had HTS programs.  We also can't say enough about our guide, Helen, who made all of us Great Wall families feel at home.  She worked endless hours and went above and beyond the call of duty.  Helen sat down with Christopher and translated Cadie's memory book, which we captured on video.  Cadie loves to hear Helen's voice even now.  Christopher and I were also fortunate to have my mother accompany us on the trip and we will be forever grateful for her time and help.  Cadie bonded with her very quickly.  We have such great memories of 3 of us in China.  We shared many belly laughs and and a few tears over the two weeks!  We especially want to thank Carson for capturing this beautiful photo of our Gotcha moment.  We are grateful to have this image, as in the rush of all the events in China, we discovered we taped over our Gotcha Day video!  This picture is priceless to us.  Even though we are home and settling into a routine, China, our fellow adoptive families, and all the orphaned children without families are in our thoughts and prayer daily. We are truly counting our blessings this Christmas.

China or Bust!

So, I've done a terrible job of keeping up with this blog (or even figuring out how to do it- where do people find the time)?!! Anyway.... we received a referral in June for a beautiful 1 year old girl and we quickly accepted. We had been in the special needs program since our LID in November 2009, but we were beginning to get discouraged and I was ready to call it quits and settle in for the LONG wait. And then on Friday June 25th, I received a call at work from my agency, "no pressure, just thought you could take a look, call me if you have any questions,the file is in your email." I took a quick look and my heart started racing. It is truly amazing how you just know when its your child. It has been a whirlwind ever since and we have been in high gear at our house preparing to bring our daughter home. Finally... parents at the ripe old ages of 42 and 40!
We are off to China on December 9th to return home on Christmas Eve Day. What a very special Christmas this will be for us. We may be sleeping through Christmas this year, but it will be with a big smile on our faces! I hope to keep up with the blog while in China- we'll see how that goes. Right now, I'm exhausted from just looking over the itinerary and packing! Bon Voyage!

Our LID

Okay, so none of that went according to plan! It is now February and I am just getting back to this! But, for the record, here's where we are.... Our dossier was completed in October 2009 and sent off to China by our agency. Our official Log-In-Date (LID) is November 24, 2009. It was November 20, 2008 that we went to our first informational meeting on China adoption. I don't know if the year went by fast or slow! But we are now officially waiting. And what a wait it will be! Currently, families in the non-special needs program with China have waited roughly 3 years and 10 months. Well worth it, I'm sure they would all say! In the meantime, my sisters have coerced me into running as part of a relay team in the Mt. Desert Island Marathon in October of this year (the hilliest marathon course in North America, according to Runners World). I don't know whether to laugh or cry! Could someone please tell them I'm not a runner!! At least I will have something to keep me busy and distracted for this first year of "the long wait." Wish me luck! KIKI